The first step to improve you relationship is understanding. Not just understanding what a person is trying to say, but to understand a persons feelings. For me basic conversation with my partner helps improve our relationship by reading her body language. Women want men to know them without them saying anything so we need read signs of problems or stress. If your partner seems stressed offer a glass of wine or to fix them a nice relaxing bath. Turn on some relaxing music and massage their shoulders or back to ease any tension. Make it seem as if you know what they need before they ask.
Next tip in improving your relationship is the change up which for some of us is hard to do. If you haven't been on a night out with your partner for a while, plan just that. Plan lunch at the park, dinner and a movie, a winery for some great alone time. A great date scores lots of points, and gives your partner that one on one time he/she deserves. Also try some new things in the bed that will get their mind racing. Set up a nice romantic environment with rose pedals, chocolate, and even some sexy underwear. Spend extra time with four play and take your time all the way through, again you want this to be something she is going to remember. Think of something that they have always wanted you to do to them and go full steam ahead.
With most failed marriages and relationships are the failure on both sides to communicate. With guys our communication is very limited when it comes to our women. We talk openly about sex, sports, and money but avoid talks with our partners when it comes to how to improve our relationships. Any problems need to be talked about as soon as possible before anger starts build, don't allow them to linger. Be truthful about any concerns or problems that the two of you may be having. Keep the conversations calm but direct as you want to get your point across.
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